1. She LOVES school. I say, "It's school time," and she half runs half leaps to her room, clapping her hands and saying "school!" Such super positive associations with the word "school" can't be bad.
2. I am learning, for my part, how she learns. Like, yesterday I showed her the lower case r. She hardly glanced at it, but I suspected, because I know how she learns so well at this point, that she got it. Sure enough, a little later she picked up the 2 playdough r's I had made and declared "Two r's!"
3. It gives me a fun, creative, and intellectual challenge in my parenting. I am often thinking about new things we can do during our school time, new ways to work on things she seems to be ready to learn. It is SO MUCH FUN to come up with little games and songs and activities, and it is so rewarding to watch her enjoy the fruit of my thinking and really learn new things through it.
4. It increases the bond between us. Because I don't have it in my mind that "she'll learn that when she goes to school" - be it social skills or reading or science - I am constantly focusing upon what I can do to help her develop to her fullest potential in every area of her life. Consequently, parenting is much more engaging for me that it would be otherwise. As my mothering heart and mind stretch out to cuddle and nurture all of her, we are both growing and we are growing close together.
So, the point of this blog is going to be to record the activities I'm doing with my daughter both for future reference and to share ideas with other moms who are also interested in working with their children at home, either to supplement nursery school or as a substitute. One other note - I've noticed that moms homeschooling a large family tend to neglect the toddlers. Babies go in slings, older kids get "schooled," and toddlers are left to fend for themselves with trucks or something. I only have one child and imagine it must be very difficult to work with each child well at all points of their lives. But please don't forget - your 9 year old will never be able to learn Spanish like your 2 year old can right now. Your toddler is right now establishing his/her capacities and love of math, music, nature, language, etc. - that window isn't going to be open forever. I think the reason we are inclined to begin homeschooling around the age of 3 or 4 is that this is when the wider culture does so - but they do so because younger children are wiggly, more "difficult" to work with (if your idea of "working" with them is sitting quietly at a table with worksheets), and probably need to be home with mom if possible, anyway. But as homeschooling families, I think we should know better. No one thinks the toddler phase is insignificant in their development. So my plea - please give intentional attention to your toddler as you are able. The benefits will last for the rest of his/her life. This blog is devoted to giving ideas geared toward working with those younger years without having to buy curriculum.
1 comment:
Great news to hear and I would have to suspect that spending that time with her when she was so young really did help with her ablitiy now to pick things up so quickly. You have given her something wonderful to help her in her future learning. Working one on one with our little ones helps them to build their confidence that they can and will learn things.
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